Pete Mockaitis Okay. So, you can’t work here unless you have integrity. Timothée Chalamet hosts Saturday Night Live on December 12, 2020 with musical guest Bruce Springsteen and the E Street Band. There are four characters in a story normally. They have to hone their craft, and so I like getting inspiration from uncommon places. Thank you. Andrew Grove, who ran Intel for so many years, says that, “Don’t be confused. Would you want to spend about four hours together, just talking about whatever your next book is about? All right. And I think that’s what so powerful for me about being an author is that it’s kind of like that person that has an autoimmune condition and they’re shopping for doctors trying to get an answer, and they have this illness, and they just want to know what it is, and even if they finally get the news and it’s horrible news, there’s still such a relief to knowing what it is and knowing what you’re working with. Pete Mockaitis Andrea Wanerstrand Yes, that’s something else. I mean, I couldn’t resist myself. And the beautiful thing though is if you can reduce it, that’s really where the evidence comes from, is when you start to cut down on the switches and you start to feel sanity return to your day. The issue is, “Could you wait less? So, I’m not at liberty to share the Microsoft physical numbers for you, but when I look at perhaps a team that did not…maybe was challenged in meeting their numbers before, and through adapting to a growth mindset, taking on being more coach-like, we are seeing year-over-year change and in the positive direction for them achieving the business results and, in many cases, exceeding the business results. The only way you’re going to maintain that, however, is that you have to manage the social friction down. I’ll respond within a business day. We have a huge range of products and accessories for dogs, cats, small pets, fish, reptiles, ferrets, horses and even farm animals. 18:03 Geile Rothaarige Oma fickt mit Ihrem jungen Nachbar auf dem Sofa 82% 4957. What are we seeing? But the first thing you got to do, if you want to do that, is admit you’re actually an economic product. If you’re playing defense, then what that means is that you’re managing personal risks, you’re in a mode of loss prevention, self-preservation, and so you’re taking a certain amount of your productive capacity and you’re using it to protect yourself. Pete Mockaitis So, he’s saying, “Buy your eggs at HEB.” Now, what’s he doing? Well, that’s true and so we have to think of it on a continuum. I think I said that right. I just haven’t chosen to study math.” That’s a fixed mindset, “I’m bad at math,” versus a growth mindset that says, “I’m perfectly capable of being great at math. Timothy Clark Dave Crenshaw But a guy happened to give me a job in the warehouse of a publishing company, and I was just going to wait a year and then go to school because I had moved state and was going to get residency. Well, I am excited to talk about your latest work Business Made Simple. Sure. Well, we kind of danced around this and this is not going to surprise you at all. Dave Crenshaw Let’s see if we can have a different conversation on that. So, humor is a core value for me. You said that your first several installments, videos and pieces of the book, are all about character. Yeah, you’re just making more work for yourself. Now, of course, we have a ways to go in many of our organizations but I thought that was a particularly important insight. Yeah. The most efficient, also the most caring and empathetic. And what we found was the hidden staircase. So, Jerry Seinfeld is giving that to me right now. So, could you lay it on there, is there a distinction there? I appreciate that.” And they say, “And here is your 4% raise for your great performance this year.”. Timothy Clark You go to wherever it is. If that self-censoring instinct is triggered or activated by the behavior of other people, we catch on pretty quickly. But it is common sense for someone in the UK that they belong on the left. If we move into that kind of behavior, then it shuts down our intellectual friction and we’re not able to make the breakthroughs that we need. These are all core values as possibilities. So, a bias towards action is a fantastic competitive advantage. In unserer Zoohandlung mit mehr als 26.000 Artikeln finden Sie eine große Auswahl in den Bereichen für Hunde, Katzen, Kleintiere, Nagetiere, Fische, Vögel, Reptilien, Pferde bis hin zu Artikeln für Nutztiere und alles rund um den Bauernhof. Well, you’re good at coaching, and I’d love to get your take on what are some of the top resources you’d recommend for folks looking to improve their coaching skills? Well, I’m excited to get into what you’ve got to say but, first, I want to hear a smidge about your background. Now I just use my phone but I am constantly just trying to capture insights and thoughts and observations. That was by Stanford, and I love that because it’s such a reminder of how important it is for us, I mean, all of us are innately creative beings to create white space outside of our work and stop getting into that addictive pattern of booking ourselves back-to-back-to-back not allowing for that genius to come through in our day-to-day lives. Pete Mockaitis It’s kind of forced me to exercise a few times a week, and I’m really proud of that because it’s given me such a level of new focus and energy in my day, and I’m so glad I’m doing that. You pour a cup of coffee, you read the daily entry, and then you get a video that day in your email box. And a favorite book? You know, I had a client who was a lawyer, and a lot of her core skillset and core nature pointed to being a lawyer, and there are many options that I pointed to but lawyer made sense. If you get shot down, you’re not going to do it again. A lot of other things are still the same. Okay. I wanted to make people worth more money. And then, likewise, I remember back when I was single and had some dating activity going on, I remember, through a friend of a friend, someone said, “Well, Pete Mockaitis is a real jerk.” And I thought, “Uh-oh. And the reason I’m a big fan about it is when we keep going back and trying the old ways, it doesn’t allow us to adapt to today’s environment or tomorrow’s environment. I mean, it’s everything I’ve collected over a decade of work with thousands of job seekers in my courses. In fact, Pete, one of the case studies that I give in the book that illustrates this point is that, in the United States at least, a student drops out of high school every 26 seconds. Good old Bob Ross. I’ve seen some that say less. Pete Mockaitis It’s 60 daily entries. We also have this aspect of mentoring where folks can learn from your scars that somebody can tread down the path and go past that. And I wrote it all down in this book. Another one is to publicly change your opinion so the people can hear that you’ve been influenced and that you’re changing your opinion or your point of view on something. Dr. Timothy Clark discusses the specific benefits and behaviors associated with high-performing, psychologically safe teams. How can I help you?”. That’s right. Do you see yourself advancing in this organization?” And so, it’s really about the health of the organization. So, you’ve got to get good at what you do. I’m sitting here, I’ve got a mouse in my hand that’s a gaming mouse with lots of different buttons that are assigned to macros. I mean, obviously, I have to say my own book You Turn, but if that is not self-serving enough, I could say my favorite book and the person that motivated me to be a writer in the first place and really influenced the way that I write is The Perks of Being a Wallflower by Stephen Chbosky. And so, core values have come up a few times on the show. Can you say more about that? The market, 100%, absolutely sees you that way. Practicing at home will help you get better at work. Pete Mockaitis And you sell your services to other companies in exchange for pay.” Now, I got to tell you also this. Yeah, anytime I’ve done this, the client, or somebody, the courses, or whatever have you, I hear somebody saying, “Oh, I think a few of these feel like me.” So, here’s a thing to know, your primary core skillset is what matters the most. And then how did that feel versus our first? He figured out how he can make the football team money. All right. I hate that I’m saying it because it feels really trite but it was really hard for me to get into fitness. Don Miller It’s like something lights up inside you, it’s like, “I don’t have the hard data but that sounds very right and true and, yes, internally.”. In that case, if someone is taking six minutes, every six minutes they’re checking their email, their instant messages, even if we can cut that down to every hour on the hour, we’ve reduced the number of switches that you’re making by 60% or more. I’m happy to step in and show you what coaching looks like and what coaching doesn’t look like. So, I use a thing called Phrase Express, and there are things like this, that are phrase macros. Privacy Policy | Terms and Conditions I think you’ve got an idea.”. At least they get you on the ladder, which is great. Tim is founder and CEO of LeaderFactor and is based in Salt Lake City, Utah. And one of the things that I’ve learned as I was writing the book is that everybody, obviously, is motivated by something else. This is kind of what it sounds, the bookkeeper, the accountant, the investment banker, the financial modeler. Andrea Wanerstrand Let’s do this. But, of course, I’m capable of being good at math. And leaders who want to be liked, or people and companies who want to be liked, they compromise, they don’t tell the truth. And for those who are not as familiar, what is the work health index? And so, we have to maintain, in order to maintain high levels of psychological safety, we have to maintain high levels of respect and permission. I think it’s something you kind of recognize. They learn very, very quickly that if they challenge the status quo and they get their heads chopped off, they’re not going to do it anymore. Don Miller First of all, what’s the big idea here? Pete Mockaitis The truth is right in front of them and they can’t hide from it. And she wrote a whole book on that, and it’s fascinating. Now, what do I need to do? Oh, yeah, I’m right with you. By Ryan T. Higgins. And then the sixth one is accomplishment. Like, for instance, with video editing, because I know you do stuff with that. Have you tried some sleep techniques for the kids? Our global writing staff includes experienced ENL & ESL academic writers in a variety of disciplines. As soon as I got there, the director, he introduced himself to me, and he said, “We’re so happy to have you here. Because one of the slippery slopes I think people take in their career is they work in a zone of goodness and not in their zone of genius. Dave Crenshaw The myth of multitasking is that multitasking simply does not exist, not in the way that people think about it. Dave Crenshaw Now, let me build on that because we can keep going. So, we have, was it, you said maybe 6,000 plus, was it, individual contributors have directly benefited and experienced some of this coaching goodness. And then number seven is training. It is a journey though. And there’s another concept that I teach elsewhere where I talk about the missing minute and restoring that minute to your day. And I also think a lot of people kind of get stuck on this idea of clarity. Let’s bring it on,” can you share with us the story in terms of how did this come to be in terms of start at the beginning? Like, what do we have to gain or lose when we have it or don’t have it? Timothy Clark I don’t have them in rank order but I’ll take a shot. Well, Tim, tell me, anything else you want to make sure to mention before we hear about a few of your favorite things? You read the third one you become worth about $5 more if you execute it and actually practice these skills in your professional career. I really like it here.” And we said, “Listen, if you come back and you turned in a two weeks’ notice, we’re going to be ticked. Oh, look. How do you think about that? And then I’m also going to learn a business strategy, how to keep cashflow strong, how to keep overhead light, how to keep products profitable, how to get your marketing engine going, your sales engine going, and how to look at cashflow so that we don’t run out of it. I know that there’s a human capital report with ICF that you’ve done some work with. I’m relying on your facial expressions. That’s why I paraphrase Mark Twain, and I say, “There are lies, damned lies in multitasking,” because it’s a lie that everyone lives. Every single human being is a company. How are you today? She is an International Coaching Federation (ICF) certified executive coach, serves as a global board director with the ICF, and leads the global coaching programs at Microsoft. And I would agree with that, it is dehumanizing. It’s not like you’re, I don’t know, 3% less effective but rather massively less effective when you multitask. Women and men want to experience a deep sense of meaning. All right. Additionally, when we look at it in a business context, coaching is one of the techniques that we all have in our quiver. So, for example, if you want to elevate inclusion safety, stage one, then you need to engage in behaviors that invite, that share, that solicit feedback and input, and you’re acknowledging other people. Tell us about it. So, let’s try this a little bit differently. And it’s hard to hear those little ones. Yes. Absolutely. There you go. Because you are such a good investment that, “When we give you a paycheck, we get so much more in return.”. Enjoy a collection of popular favorites in Spanish – CNN en Español, Discovery en Español, Discovery Familia, ESPN Deportes, History Channel en Español, and Universo. Is that a natural place for you? She’s connecting.” It was just kind of surface level, I guess, maybe in terms of any stranger might engage me at that level. So, the book, it’s on its second edition here. Well, now I’m curious. Boy, there’s so much I want to dig into. So, one way it can look is being a mechanic, a construction worker, a little bit more tactical. Yes, it can be done but you got to practice. Powerful stuff. Password requirements: 6 to 30 characters long; ASCII characters only (characters found on a standard US keyboard); must contain at least 4 different symbols; Well, if they’re interested in getting The Myth of Multitasking, you go to Did we get some for the contributor safety? That’s adventure for her. Pete Mockaitis What happened with Microsoft that led us to embark on this coaching journey? This is the career person that loves deadlines, they love that dopamine hit when they get an achievement. And then, also, even managers are using it with their teams. What is the shared common sense of how much time we should allow for an email response? And so, we’re seeing results on both sides of the coin, if you will. I do entrepreneurial math. Timothy Clark So, when we talk about showing up with a coach mindset, there’s an aspect of discernment that we ask each of us to have. Cloud DVR storage space is limited. Take, for example, think about all of us who are working virtually during the pandemic, we’re working with a distributed workforce, we’re on some kind of virtual platform. The other is back-tasking. Well, now let’s really zoom in on the comment associated with if someone says they’re really good at multitasking, they’re really good at screwing up multiple things at the same time. Another way it could look is a little bit more conceptual and concrete like a web developer or somebody who’s building out a website. , she’s been able to support clients in 31 countries in discovering their best career path, upgrading their confidence and landing more job offers. But, in particular, when you look at those from an ROI, our folks are able to be differentiated and be able to change from where they were before and now accelerate the business. Somebody who’s seeking impact, it’s about the world. But it is magical because there are some thresholds, like at some point when your hourly compensation rises to one point, it’s like, “You know what, now might make sense to have me hire someone to help clean the house. When we have sympathy, it’s about us. And this was back when I did it in person. A second one is to ask for help from someone of lower status than you. And as I say that statement, I know that there’s probably half your audience that feels tension at the thought of that, right? Now, that’s negative. Everything is Figureoutable by Marie Forleo. And I almost got choked up with tears in my eyes walking away because that was me. Pete Mockaitis Andrea Wanerstrand Pete Mockaitis That’s really what we’re talking about. I’ve woken up really sad, I’ve woken up really tired, I’ve woken up really angry or frustrated, but never ever without a deep sense of meaning. Number four is impact. Or what about a text message? Well, yeah, that’s powerful. Meaning, just try something. No. Pete Mockaitis Thanks, Pete. So, then these people who were just quoting Arnold Schwarzenegger, they had to be logged as threats, like, “Get down,” because that is…, Pete Mockaitis So, maybe it’s humbling you, or maybe it’s making you more empathetic, or maybe it’s building muscle, emotional muscle or physical muscle, whatever it is. Live TV is available in the 50 United States and the District of Columbia only. We’re assigning you to dissent. Listen, one thing I’ve learned working in the government is that there will always be something else weird. Well, the great news is that we are seeing that year-over-year trending increasing. Let’s talk about what you called the hired gun but we call it coaching for service. Andrea Wanerstrand And what I think with this is I walked into the Pixar offices a while back, and I saw a big sign on the wall that said, “Fail faster.” And what I loved about that was that, to me, is the sign of a good career. Like, how many times has somebody said something, and all of you is like, “Yes.” It’s almost like they put words to what you knew and you couldn’t express. So, what got you here won’t get you there. Thousands of listeners as I sleep. But how is that shaking out? So, it wasn’t until, gosh, I think I was 25 or 26 that I even discovered that I wanted a career. Andrea Wanerstrand So, this could be as literal as a fitness professional, this could be like a masseuse, a tour guide, anybody who’s using their energy and their body throughout the day and being in a state of movement is the motion core skillset. So, if you want to control how your story ends up, spend more time being the hero, more time being the guide, less time being the victim, and less time being the villain, and things are going to go okay. Thank you. And it’s a technique that each of us can use to really help those around us get clear with their objectives, get clear with what they want to accomplish, and get clear in understanding how capable they really are. Stream thousands of shows and movies, with plans starting at. Now, we’re not going to coddle each other, right? Use it for that.”. We just interviewed Mathew McConaughey the other day. Less people are dead at the end of it. There’s an intelligence to having butterflies in your stomach. What’s the title? I think you owe me 5%.” Nobody is interested in that conversation. Statusmeldungen und Wartungsarbeiten. Amen. Tim, thanks for joining us here on the How to be Awesome at Your Job podcast. What if it’s less than that? Pete Mockaitis So, I did a kind of a roundtable discussion with a whole group of women of color the other day. I am convinced that the more we identify as the hero or the guide, the better our life goes. specific, actionable insights that boost work performance. Well, we don’t have time to wait for that. Pete Mockaitis My buddy runs a poetry week in San Diego, California at Point Loma University. Pete Mockaitis All right. 431 Likes, 4 Comments - George Mason University (@georgemasonu) on Instagram: “"As a freshman at Mason, I had difficulties being on my own for the first time. 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